July 3, 2027

Amber & Harry

La Jolla, California

The Tale

It all started on a late August day in 2017 at the Healey Family Student Center during the School of Foreign Service new student orientation, just before the Dean's speech. Two first-year students full of nerves, neither quite sure what the next four years would bring.

Their first few months: seat-saving in Econ 103, Kingsman: The Golden Circle at AMC Georgetown 14, a "we'll stay friends, but I know the owner here so I'll treat you" dinner at The Tapas Bar in Bethesda, a decent tomato rice stew and a not-so-decent stir-fried cold soba, the Freer Sackler's Ancient Bells of China collection, many late-night chats at Lau, and, just once, underneath the flagpoles at the Washington Monument.

Then, on a December hatsuyuki (the year's first snow) night, after Harry promised to read "a few excerpts" from his diary—which somehow lasted 1.5 hours well past midnight—the relationship officially began.

Since then, they've navigated just about everything together: the existential questions that seem to accompany your early twenties, spending arguably too much time together their second year, not nearly enough while studying abroad in different corners of Europe their third year, and then, thanks to COVID, once again perhaps a little too much again. Together they've lived in the DMV, NYC, San Diego, and now Chicago. Over the years, they've made their way across the US and China, but also Japan, Taiwan, the UK, Spain, Mexico, Puerto Rico, Ecuador, Peru, Türkiye, across from the East Bank, Canada, France -- What else are two SFS grads going to do but walk the Maps of the Modern World, check out the capital cities they so dutifully memorized for a pass/fail grade, then spend the rest of their lives reminiscing about them?

Now, ten years later, La Jolla and San Diego hold a special place in their hearts. Home to Harry's PhD program, it's where endless coastal trails meet authentic Chinese food, making it their dream city. From leisurely walks along the Guy Fleming Trail above Torrey Pines to impromptu sunset picnics at Calumet Park, they've fallen in love with this place. They can't wait to share a small piece of it with you as you join them in La Jolla to celebrate this next chapter. Having you there truly means the world to them.

Schedule

Darlington House exterior and garden setting
Friday, July 2

Welcome Party

7:00 PM

Location TBD

Saturday, July 3

Ceremony

4:30 PM

Darlington House

7441 Olivetas Avenue, La Jolla, CA 92037

Cocktail Hour

5:00 PM

Darlington House

7441 Olivetas Avenue, La Jolla, CA 92037

Reception

6:30 PM

Darlington House

7441 Olivetas Avenue, La Jolla, CA 92037

After-Party

10:00 PM

Location TBD

Travel

Seaside view introducing travel details for the wedding weekend

Getting Here

Flights

Closest airport • San Diego International (SAN)

SAN is the easiest airport for the weekend and is about 20 to 25 minutes from La Jolla without heavy traffic. A Friday midday arrival usually makes for the smoothest start.

Getting Around

Rideshare friendly • Limited coastal parking

We recommend rideshare for the wedding day. Street parking can be tight near the coast, especially around sunset, so leaving the car behind will make things easier.

Where to Stay

La Valencia Hotel

Oceanfront stay • Heart of La Jolla

A classic La Jolla stay right above the cove, with quick access to shops, coffee, and the coastline. Ideal if you want the weekend to feel fully on foot.

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Scripps Inn

Walking distance to the venue • Quiet atmosphere

A more relaxed option without sacrificing the location. Conveniently located within walking distance of our venue.

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Hilton San Diego Mission Valley

Downtown location • Easy access to attractions

A modern hotel in the downtown hotel district of San Diego, offering easy access to local attractions and public transportation.

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Hilton La Jolla Torrey Pines

Cliffside views • World-class golf courses

A modern hotel with a pool and spa, perched above the cliffs of Torrey Pines. Great for those who want a resort feel with easy access to the coast.

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Questions

Balboa Park architecture and gardens introducing wedding FAQ details

What is the dress code?

Smart casual for the welcome party on Friday.

Black tie for the Saturday ceremony and reception. Colorful gowns, formal cocktail dresses, tuxedos, or dark suits are all in line with the evening.

When should I arrive?

Please plan to arrive 20 to 30 minutes before the ceremony so everyone is settled before we begin promptly at 4:30 PM.

Will transportation be provided?

We are not arranging shuttles, so rideshare is the easiest option for the wedding day, especially for the transition from the coast to the reception.

Can I drive and park at the venues?

Street parking is available but can be limited near the coast. If you are staying nearby, we strongly recommend rideshare to keep the day simple.

Activities